Why so serious??

Stressing over something happening in life. Taking each and everything personally without knowing yourself completely. Comparing yourself with others, feeling inferior, incompetent and under confident. Feeling exausted as you have been rejected many a times. Losing hope each day and doubting your worth that you are not capable of doing anything.

Just chill dude!! Take a chill!! You have poisoned your mind with so many negative thoughts, and making your life even worse. Its not life which is unfair or harsh to you, but you who is making your life harsh by your own thoughts. Stop comparing yourself with each and everyone you see and doubting your worth. You don’t know what plans life has for you. You are here disappointing over that cripy job from where you are rejected, and the life is planning a glorifing experience for you. You are losing hope thinking that there is nothing left to live for and God is here seeing your pain and disappointments and giving you strength to endure everything. You are a creature of God my dear. Stop exausting yourself over some cripy things whether its that shitty job, rejection, criticism. Try to learn from each and everything, try making yourself better everyday in life.

Stop comparing yourself with others and start comparing yourself with you and only you. Your competition is not the world but only you. Make yourself competent and you will be stress free from the competition. You only feel stressed when you are incompetent, so rather comparing yourself with others, start working on yourself and you will be on top of the world!!

Let people live their life and embrace yourself for the great, glorifing life ahead. You are awesome my darling!

Forgive people by forgetting them..

I don’t know who wants to hear this but yes we have to forgive people who are not even sorry for their wrong doings for the peace of our mind. If you keep cursing them for all the bad things they have done to you,then it will not affect them in any way but your own happiness.

Ask yourself some questions,do they deserve any kind of attention from you? Do they deserve to be in your mind in any way? Do they deserve your time that you are wasting thinking about them? They have wasted your enough time and now they don’t deserve to be in your life and in your mind in any way.

Let them go wherever they want to. There is a strong reason of why they are not with you.Always remember one thing my dear.. If you are getting what you want then its God’s blessing to you, but if you are not getting what you want,then its God’s protection for you. I am firm believer that whatever happens in life, happens for a reason and for our well being. We don’t realize this when all the things are happening but we realize this later.

People who have hurt you will end up hurting themselves, but that doesn’t mean you have ti hurt them or to take revenge from them. Just move on in your life silently making yourself proud.

Don’t blame yourself for the things that have not worked, its not your mistake my dear. People who betrayed you, lied to you, hurt you are raised that way. Normal people don’t go around hurting other people.

They don’t deserve you and they never did, thats why they are not with you anymore. They will get what they deserve eventually. You are priceless my dear, do you think they can afford your love and emotions?? Naahhh..

Hold your head high and go conquer the world. You are so damn powerful.

I Love You.

Do not go back..

Do not go back to someone who broke you apart, not tomorrow, not in 5 years, not in 10. A person who treated you terribly will do it again and again.

Hold yourself strongly and keep moving on. You are doing great, don’t doubt yourself and your actions. I know its difficult and painful as hell but staying with the person who is unfaithful, lier, manupulative, careless is like dieing each and everyday,you will not be able to live your life. Each day you will cry for the person who doesn’t even mind losing you.Do you want to spend your life like this or with this kind of person? I know you love that person and it will be very difficult for you to walk away but thats the only option you left with now. If you don’t take action of leaving them even after seeing their true colours and inconsistent behaviour,then they will leave you as soon as they get another one destroying your self confidence and worth.

Start taking action in your life,and take pride on your actions and decisions. Don’t allow others to control your life. You will put yourself in trouble each and everytime whenever you put the key of your happiness in others pocket.You can’t waste your whole life begging for love from someone who don’t even deserve your heart.

Don’t lose your mind oversome who doesn’t mind losing you, you will only lose yourself trying to hold them. People who doesn’t value you, deserve to lose you. If they would have loved you like they said, then they wouldn’t treated you like they did. Words lie, actions don’t.

Don’t make a fool of yourself being faithful to someone who is not. Stop being so forgiving each time, people know exactly what they are doing. You will only lose your self respect proving your love to them and begging them to stay in your life. Make a decision today, leave that toxic person and never look back again.

You deserve a person who will love you for who you are, a person who will love you inside and outside,who appreciate and respect you. Until you find that person, you are enough, you are everything you need.

You are beautiful.

Wake me up when its all over…..

Wake me up when people start loving each other,otherwise just let me sleep. .

Wake me up when people start missing God not just when they need something, but also when they have everything.

Wake me up when people start behaving genuinely, no double face, no jealousy,otherwise just let me sleep.

Wake me up when people start showing kindness and generosity to other creatures on this beautiful planet.

Wake me up when people start beleiving how blessed they are.

Wake me up when people start loving genuinely with all their heart, no mind games, no manipulation.

Wake me up when people start becoming happy by seeing others success and growth.

Wake me up when people start respecting themselves, their life and their existence.

Wake me up when people stop doubting their worth, talent,individuality and start believing themselves.

Until that don’t wake me up, let me sleep…. Because I can’t take more. Please wake me up when its all over Wake me up when its all over…….

Don’t make a fool of yourself…

Be understanding, be forgiving but don’t make a fool of yourself being faithful to someone who is not. You don’t look mature, smart, loyal or intelligent by keeping yourself stuck in a toxic relationship or a situation. People are not going to give you a medal or some trophy for making sincere efforts and loosing yourself in a relationship. If you are loosing your everything, and by ‘everything’ I don’t mean materialistic things, what I mean is your self confidence, self worth, self respect, your passion, your self esteem,your values, all these are more precious and valueable than any materialistic thing my dear, and if you are loosing these, it means you are loosing you as a whole.

Being able to understand others, showing gratitude, kindness and compassion are essential values that a person should have, but you should also be able to understand yourself, you have to be kind and compassionate to yourself also. You can’t spend your whole life half lived,or in confusion that if someone loves you or not.When someone truly loves you, then there will be no confusion in your mind if he or she loves you or not. Do your parents make you feel like that?? Naah..

True love is eternal and infinite and when someone come in your life with the same good intentions and heart as yours, that day you will realize what love is all about. That day you realize that you were worthy of immense love which your past relationships found hard to give you.

I am not saying that you shouldn’t do anything for your relationship to work out as every relation go through a rough phase,that doesn’t mean you should give up on someone just because of a petty issue.But you have to make sure that you are not the only one who is making all the efforts and the other person is just sitting beside watching you crying everyday. That effort should be mutual my dear. One sided love or emotion can destroy you mentally and emotionally. You have invested your so much time, emotions and feelings on someone that not getting the same importance, love and respect even after giving your soul and heart to someone, it hurts, it really hurts..

So,before loving someone else you should learn to love yourself first as you need yourself till the end of your life. You should be able to see your worth not from others perspective but from yours, so that you know your standards and become able to say ‘NO’ to anything or anyone that doesn’t helps you to grow or makes you happy.

You don’t have to wait for someone to love you, just love yourself enough, the world will start loving you.

Rise my dear…

You have to be strong..

You have to be strong dear,and that strongness will come from within. You have to believe in yourself, you have to be truthful to you.In this world, you can escape from anything but not from yourself. You have to spend your whole life not with someone else but with you. So, you have to do the best for yourself. You have to walk away from any relationship, person or situation that threaten your peace of mind, your dignity or your self respect.We often lose our own self while loving others or because of the fear that the people we love don’t leave us. But you have to understand that if you are giving your everything and compromising certain things for them, then they would be doing the same for you if they genuinely love you. If you are the only one who is doing all the effort then my boy/girl you are just wasting your energy and emotions.

I am not saying that you have to jump from relationship to relationship, but you have to put your energy on things that helps you to grow emotionally, mentally, financially. You can’t dwell into past for that long,because you actually don’t have that extra time to waste thinking about anything or anyone that didn’t worked out for you. You are young and thats the time when you have to invest in yourself. You have to make yourself financially stable whether you are a male or female.You can’t stay depressed for 1 or 2 years and not get out of your house, meeting new people, working somewhere just because you have experienced something bad.

You have to think about youself now. You have to get up fighting your demons each and everyday, setting your goals high and keep smashing them day in and day out. Now its your time, now its your turn my darling to show the world what you are made up of. Its not the time to sit back and cry over someone or something, enough is enough.. Go and show the world what you have got. This world need more people like you and here you are who is doubting your worth, thinking yourself a trash. Don’t you dare think like that. You are a diamond my dear, you are unbreakable, you are worthy.

Just get out of your comfort zone and start exploring the world, you will get immense opportunities to lighten the world and your life also. You are talented, but the only thing is that you are not recognising it. Be your bestfriend, be your favourite dear because the most important person you need in this world is ‘you’and only ‘you’.

Get up my boy, get up my girl and be ‘unstoppable‘..

You fly girl…..

Don’t look down, don’t look back, just move forward. You are a wonderful creature that God has gifted to this world,so act like that.

Don’t you dare loose your confidence or doubt your opinions or self worth just because the world doesn’t recognized your worth and capabilities yet. Love yourself so much as if you are your favourite person. Make yourself your priority and you don’t have to justify yourself for making yourself a priority to anyone. This is your life, make it large.

Just don’t look at anybody and start comparing yourself to each and everyone on this planet,this will never end my sweetheart.. No one tell you that how worthy you are and what you deserve in your life, what you can accomplish in life, what are you capable of and what you deserve.

Start believing yourself, start believing thst you are beautiful, you are worthy, you are everything and you are enough because genuinely you are not just a small creature on this planet that God has put but you are a fire, you are a change who has ability to change this world. You have dreams in your eyes but not chasing them out of fear, fear of people, fear of rejections. But my dear all the big names that you are hearing or reading today in books also feared rejections at some point of time but they knew that remaining at that state of mind will only keep them at the same place where they were. Moving out of your comfort zone is important as your growth always starts when you are hustling day in and day out. You will only lead a average life with that mindset.

My dear, people can’t tell who you are and what you deserve because you are worthy of each and every great thing that you always question yourself about of being not worthy. You and only you know what you want in life and what you are capable of achieving. Don’t you dare to doubt yourself just because someone can’t see your worth.People often change their perspective and opinions when you achieve something big, don’t take them so seriously because they are not serious of their own self, if they were then they wouldn’t be having time to critisize you for no reason.

Go fly girl.. Just break the so called barriers that people are binding you with. You are made to fly,fly so high that no one can think of doing the things that you achieved. Be so so strong that no one will be able to break your self esteem and confidence.

Yes, you are worthy.

Yes, you are worthy of every blessing and happiness in your life my dear, because you are a pure soul, you have a pure heart, you are life, you are happiness my darling.

But sometimes in life we start doubting our self worth because of the opinions of others. But my dear people’s opinions are just opinions not facts, so stop stressing yourself because of others.

Most of us start doubting our worth while in a relationship or after the relationship is over,after a heartbreak actually. We do it because that person’s opinion becomes very important for us as we love them and appreciate their everything. And when they leave us for someone else or for any reason that breaks us.

While we are in relationship with them, we take their each and every opinion about us very seriously whether its about praising us for our looks or anything else. So when they go leaving us for someone else, we take their this step too very seriously and rather accepting that they lack loyalty, they lack character, they don’t deserve you, they are not worthy of having you as you are way far for their access. They were not able to match your standards in any place thats why they chose someone who can match their level of shit. Yes, they are shit thats why they chose shit but you are not.

After 3 or 4 months from a heartbreak you wonder why you were taking so much bullshit of that person. That person’s opinions will not matter for you and then you realize how worthy you were.

You were a diamond, you are a diamond and you always will because your heart is of gold and your character is strong. You are not among from those 95% of people who can betray, lie or do anything out of their selfishness or who can jump from relationship to relationship without any feelings just for physical pleasure.

You are from those 5% of people whose heart and soul are as pure and divine as yours. So finding one from those 5% of people is gonna be difficult to whom your heart will actually belong, thats why you end up staying with one who comes from that 95% category.

But God knows that you belong to someone else thats why your past relationships didn’t workout. He knows that you deserve someone like you so he remove those unwanted people from your life.

Eventually we will find your and only your soulmate, who’s never gonna leave your hand in any circumastance.

Till then keep trusting the process and youself my boy/girl.

Because you worth it!!

Those days of depression..

Yes, I am going through depression and it has been 3 months that i am fighting with my life to live it happily. It seem there is nothing left for me in this wide world, i have nothing to offer, nothing to take. One of my darkest phase in life that i have experienced so far. Just don’t know where am i going or am i standing still all alone in this world full of people but no one to share my feelings with.

I have seen my friends, even my family not being by my side. It was me and only me who was fighting all alone with my demons. “Going through heartbreak is tough and it will get even worse when even your family whom you thought they are your pillars of strenght don’t try to understand you”.

How will you cope up this situation when the people with whom you are living everyday will make your life even worse?

Today I learned a tough lesson of life that you should not depend on anyone, shouldn’t trust anyone or love someone so deep that you lost yourself while loving them.

No one, literally no one will save you or stand for you in your darkest time. Today, I understand the meaning of the line that “even your shadow will leave you in the darkest time“.

Fighting with myself to stand on my two feet again after a tough heartbreak, what everyone was doing is just neglecting me and my feelings.

Even my family did not asked me once that why you are acting different,why are you not going out. One thing they did was just torturing me with their abusive words, destroying me mentally even more. Instead of trying to understand my situation even after me saying them that please just give me a month I will be fine by myself, I am not feeling like going anywhere outside and talking to anyone. All they did was just comparing me with other’s children and making my situation even more worse to overcome.

Today, I understand that why an individual has to be independent financially, emotionally. You just can’t trust or rely on anyone in this world man!! Not even on your family. It will sound strange but this is the truth.

Make youself independent in each and every aspect financially, emotionally, mentally. You are the only one you need the most..Make yourself your priority, your happiness, because its you and only you with whom your happiness lies..

God bless you!

Don’t ignore the warning signs/red flags in a relationship.

I know you love him/her so much that you want to spend your whole life with them. Your love is so deep, so sacred, so honest. But does your partner also loves you so deeply,are you sure?

If he or she is also making the same efforts to be with you or to see you happy then yes they are also willing to be with you.

But if you are continously seeing inconsistency in their efforts or confused by their actions then don’t ignore these signs my dear. If you can appreciate even a small effort of your partner then why are you ignoring his/her big big red flags that they are continously giving to you. Its not healthy for you and your mind my dear. People like them are not meant for you, they seriously don’t deserve you.

You deserve someone who will love your soul and not your body, money or other materialistic things that you have.Please don’t ignore your gut feeling about anything or anyone. I am telling you that by my personal experience. Just don’t repeat that mistake of repainting their image again and again just because you love them. You have to love yourself enough to walk away from this kind of person before they destroy you that much so that you couldn’t be able to love yourself ever.

Don’t give them a chance to destroy your self worth because at the end we only need our own self to stand on our two feet.

Don’t lose yourself just because you are afraid of losing someone else. You are enough my dear, you are just enough!!

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